Wednesday, September 16, 2026
6:00 pm EDT - 8:00 pm EDT
Catholic Information Center
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Join the CIC on our building’s downtown DC rooftop on Wednesday, September 16 from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM EDT, as we host Noelle Mering for the launch of her new book, No Contact: How a Seductive Ideology Broke Families and Friendships and How We Can Repair Them.
This program is co-sponsored with the Ethics & Public Policy Center (EPPC).
You must RSVP in advance as there is limited space available on the rooftop. There will be no day-of, walk-in registrations allowed. On the day-of starting at 6:00 PM, you may check-in at the CIC building’s main foyer with the Security team. Once checked in, you will be escorted to the elevator.
No Contact and Noelle’s previous books will be available for purchase on the CIC’s rooftop—from the CIC’s bookstore.
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In the event of a very rainy weather forecast, a decision will be made a couple days before the program to move into the CIC’s space on the first floor of the 1501 K Street building or change the date. If registered, check your email for updates.
VIDEO OF THIS TALK?
This program is offered in-person only, and will not be livestreamed. However, we will record this interview to be placed later on our YouTube Channel. If you would like to be emailed the recording, make your request through this online form: https://forms.gle/T9cCqCtQfXd1Sae47.
PARKING OPTIONS?
The CIC building’s garage at 1501 K Street NW (Atlantic Parking) will offer you a discounted rate of $6 to park. When arriving, tell the garage attendant you are attending the CIC’s program. Please note that the garage closes at 7:00 PM on Wednesdays. Those who park will be able to access the garage from inside the CIC’s building.
NEED TO CANCEL YOUR REGISTRATION?
Email the CIC Events team at events@cicdc.org.
From the acclaimed author of Awake, Not Woke comes this incisive exposé of the widespread, politically motivated no-contact movement that deconstructs the ideology behind this trend and equips readers to avert estrangement and repair broken relationships.

A new form of relationship estrangement is afoot. Whereas, in the past, relationships tended to rupture over issues like abuse, today, people are increasingly estranged because of politics. More than 68 million Americans are currently alienated from close family members. Though going no contact is frequently framed as an act of empowerment and self-care, behind the numbers are millions of hurting people—and an ideology that threatens not only relationships but the entire fabric of society.
In No Contact, author Noelle Mering weaves together interviews with historical research to identify five major factors that have given rise to the no-contact movement: identity politics, demythologization of the family, therapeutic culture, infallibility of victimhood, and cultural narcissism alongside spiritual decline. By laying bare the forces behind this destabilizing movement—and how they affect us on personal, familial, and social levels—Mering helps readers see clearly what is happening, confront it, and work with their families to heal, repair, and strengthen relationships.
More than just a critique, this book is a call to action. By bringing light to an experience that is often shrouded in shame or presented far too reductively to a cheering online audience, No Contact empowers readers with a clear-eyed and compassionate perspective that rejects the pernicious ideology undermining our most intimate and necessary relationships. The stakes are high. If we cannot hold fast to one another in the face of disagreement, we risk losing not only our most intimate bonds but also the foundation of a free and humane society.
No Contact is available to purchase at the CIC bookstore.
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“Combining powerful real-life testimonies with historical, philosophical, and sociological analysis, Mering lays bare this social development of going no contact that could, if it continues unchecked, wreak terrible damage not just on individual families but on society as a whole. This book should be required reading for concerned parents, pastors, social workers, and anyone concerned about the state of the modern family.”
Carl R. Trueman
Author of 'The Desecration of Man' and Fellow in EPPC’s Evangelicals in Civic Life Program
“In lucid and compassionate prose, No Contact explores one of the defining emotional dilemmas of contemporary life: what we owe one another when intimacy becomes painful, disappointing, or fractured. Refusing easy villains or easy redemption, this book honors the difficult terrain between injury and reconciliation.”
Joshua Coleman
Psychologist and Author of 'Rules of Estrangement'
“Equal parts tragic and inspiring, No Contact reveals the harsh realities of grown adults cutting off their aging parents over ideological disagreements while also providing concrete, actionable advice on how to repair frayed bonds and build lasting familial connections. Mering brings the hard-earned wisdom of a mother of six who has compassionately listened to countless parents share their worst nightmares—and produced a book chock-full of insights.”
Ryan T. Anderson
President of the Ethics and Public Policy Center
“Mering gives understanding and meaning to the ‘what’ and ‘why’ behind the emotional impact of a house divided and offers excellent wisdom for reconnecting relationships in a significant way. This is a most important book in the area of estrangement.”
Jim Burns
Founder of HomeWord and Author of 'Doing Life with Your Adult Children'
Noelle Mering is an author and a Fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center (EPPC) in the Life and Family Initiative.
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